Many of my friends know that I love having deep discussions, especially about books, films, and life. I recently challenged some of my friends and fellow bloggers to try to come up with a book(s) that has in some way impacted their life. It could be a book that helped you through a rough period in life, made you want to choose a certain job path, or just made you want to try something new. I soon started thinking about what book I would write about and came to the realization that there isn’t just one book that has shaped me into the person I am today. There are three points in my life where books have helped push me forward and I’ve chosen to write about those points.
As a child I was super hyperactive, hence my diagnosis with ADHD. I was always running around and could never focus on one thing to do. As a result my mom signed me up for a lot of activities to keep me busy. One of my favorite activities was going to the library with my sister for story-time or arts and crafts hour. Wanting to mimic everything my sister did, I soon found myself sitting down for hours on end reading the same books she read. I would steal her Babysitters Club, Nancy Drew, and Boxcar Children books all the time. It was when I stole her Little House on the Prairie series that I really understood the power of books. Never before had I read a book that I quite literally refused to put down until I finished. I had no idea that books could be so enthralling and captivating. Once I had read through the entire Little House series my sister told me there was a series about Laura Ingalls Wilder’s grandmother, mother, and even her daughter!! That news had me greedily forcing my mother to take me to the library and the bookstore to keep getting me more books. Thankfully my mom had NO issues having a child who wanted to read and willingly took me for books every time I asked! The Little House series was honestly the first books I read for pleasure and I credit the series for the love I currently have of novels, most specifically memoir novels. It was through reading these books that I learned to control my hyperactivness and learn to focus on one thing at a time. Without reading these books I’m not sure what kind of focus I’d have as an adult today.
As I got into my later years of elementary school and early years of high school I stopped reading for pleasure. I was forced to read tons of books in high school and was so busy with extracurricular activities that I just didn’t find it fun anymore. My senior year in high school, my english course started reading Angela’s Ashes by Frank McCourt. WOW. For the first time in a long time I was hungrily reading a book. Angela’s Ashes was everything you could ask for in a book: emotional, gripping, honest, heartbreaking, inspiring, scintillating, and so much more. It opened the path right back up for me and I started reading again voraciously. At 17 I started being able to read as well as learn from what I was reading. Angela’s Ashes taught me that no matter what life throws at you, with hard work and dedication you can overcome it. Pride and Prejudice taught me not to be so hasty in judging a person’s character. It is only through true knowledge of a person that you can really learn what is on the inside. Things Fall Apart taught me that not all change is bad, but forcing change for the sake of change is not beneficial for anyone. The Harry Potter series taught me about true friendship and overcoming all obstacles with faith and confidence in yourself. (It also opened my eyes to this magical word that I couldn’t get enough of).
As my college years came, the amount of work that was given to us was substantial. Being a media production major took up most of my free time as I spent it either filming or editing my projects. As my senior year came and went and my professional life began, I found the time to read again. Home one night and bored out of my mind I decided to watch the first Twilight film. (You can all start laughing now) I loved it and wanted to get my hands on the first volume ASAP. I read the entire Twilight series in 3 days. I was hooked. Hooked this time to vampire novels. I read the Twilight series, the Sookie Stackhouse series, and the Vampire Diaries series all in a short period of time. Through my vampire craze I found a book called Mr. Darcy, Vaympire by Amanda Grange and that just opened me up to the Jane Austen fan fiction world. It is through reading all these books again that I found a passion for book reviewing, which has led to my blog!
The three books above have been my gateway books into the world of reading. I’ve been to Ireland, Washington, regency England, the court of Henry VIII, concentration camps during the Holocaust, a state road during the apocalypse, Hogwarts, and so many other places through the wonderful worlds that have been created by Frank McCourt, Jane Austen, Stephenie Meyers, Homer, Neil Gaiman and so many others. Reading allows us to take journeys to anywhere we want to go and to do anything we want to do without ever leaving the comfort of our favorite reading spot.
I’d love to know what books have helped shape your lives so leave a comment below!
GIVEAWAY- I’m going to be giving away a copy of Angela’s Ashes by Frank McCourt. Leave a comment telling me if you’ve ever had a gateway book or had a book completely change your life. Comments will be accepted through Wednesday March 30th at midnight. Winners will be picked at random and announced Thursday March 31st. Giveaway open to US & Canadian residents only.